What if you meet your dream partner?

We all tend to keep a checklist of the kind of person we would like our life partner to be. And with time list changes, our expectations, and our priority, everything changes.

Imagine being at a stage in your life where you have been broken a lot of times and accepted that you might never find someone who will understand and accept you the way you are. And then you meet the perfect match.

Seems like a dream, right?

Well Well Well!!!!! this dream became my reality.

At the time, when all I expected was to discover new men out there just talk and explore, I met a guy who just perfectly completed my checklist, and honestly, he was putting in a lot of efforts to make sure that this works (as in we become us).

I am being honest about the good vibes I get from him but my past experiences bring those random thoughts and make me give it a practical view before investing myself in him.

We have been talking for approximately a month now. With him, I feel free, liberated, and most importantly happy. Time just flies and I am just smiling like an idiot.

And guess what he writes too!!! Crazy na??

If given an option, I would love to spend three days of my week with him (YES!!! other days we have to work too). You know the kind of relationships you don’t feel stressed about, the one you want to hide from the world (varna nazar lag jaegi and you want that person to stay), the someone special who makes you feel like home, the one with whom you can be you with.

I have dated quite a few guys but never worked either, they were too little of a man or too arrogant for being a man. Never found a perfect blend. A blend that I will like to be with. A perfect blend of 1999 and 2021.

Not sure where this will lead us. But just keeping my fingers crossed. ❤

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